...go practice more...
i i thought experienced people were supposed to help out the n00bs and teach them so that they one day match up to the standard and skill level of the experienced people,
If you don't know much about the above process then the book will indeed explain it to you, albeit in much the same patronising mangement jargon self help speak that is a little bit improved from the website. You have to pay for this, the same advice that everyone else gives you for free, or the placebo effect won't work.
I've had the nickname 'Tubbs' for about 4 years if you have had it longer i will agree that you are the original tubbs but until then this means war! No I'm only joking, i don't like fighting.Tubbs