Quote from: Droyd on January 02, 2024, 03:49:16 pmIt feels a bit weird to talk about how my partner's medical issues affect me, in that it's obviously not my body and pain, but it has had a massive impact on my life in terms of changes to both long-term plans and day-to-day life, and at times I've essentially been a carer. It’s brutal watching someone that you love experience pain and lack of hope and inability to do the things that they enjoy, and hard to go off and do some of the things that they can’t do in order to meet your own needs. On that note, she’s also been superhumanly compassionate and understanding on days when she’s been bed-bound and I’ve come home from a day out climbing and complained to her about poor conditions or a split tip.Coming at this from the other side, it’s absolutely okay and not weird to talk about the impact of your partner’s illness on your life. It’s a huge thing that turns your life upside down… they stuck the “in sickness and in health” bit in there for a reason, the temptation for many partners of sick people is to run away and you didn’t, that is awesome.I’m very aware that my period of sickness has affected my partner in many ways, I don’t feel guilty about this but I do know it’s there and do everything I can to make space for her to express her feelings about the situation. I’m sure that your struggles will still be important to her even if they seem trivial in comparison; that’s what loving someone means. Chronic illness is an absolute fucker and very good at wrecking friendships. It seems this is almost unavoidable and can be really upsetting. No answers from me on that one! I just guess some people get it and stick around, and some don’t, just when you need them. It’s brutal.I’m obviously coming at things from the sick person’s point of view, but if ever that might be useful then just DM me on here.
It feels a bit weird to talk about how my partner's medical issues affect me, in that it's obviously not my body and pain, but it has had a massive impact on my life in terms of changes to both long-term plans and day-to-day life, and at times I've essentially been a carer. It’s brutal watching someone that you love experience pain and lack of hope and inability to do the things that they enjoy, and hard to go off and do some of the things that they can’t do in order to meet your own needs. On that note, she’s also been superhumanly compassionate and understanding on days when she’s been bed-bound and I’ve come home from a day out climbing and complained to her about poor conditions or a split tip.
Umm, how did you forget those!
Top 4 wads spotted out and about- Shawn Raboutou and Giuliano Cameroni - Shawn and G Dogg were staying at the Magic Wood guest house at the same time we were, so we hung out with them a little. Shawn even gave me a Magnum ice cream once, so we're practically BFFs. However, the real highlight was pre-restday drinks in which my friend (who we shall call Bo) had a few too many and started fanboying Shawn considerably more than usual, asking for secret tips for getting stronger etc (apparently some of the Korean comp climbers have had surgery to stop their fingertips from sweating...). Anyway, eventually Shawn tried to sneak out for a cheeky doobie but without missing a beat Bo tailgated him right out the side entrance. I think it might have been a long while since Bo last smoked (assuming he has done) as apparently he vomited quite dramatically in the wee hours of the night... He sent his ghost downstairs to join us for late breakfast the following day - Kokoro Fujii - Pulling up to Isatis car park I spotted some Japanese chaps walking off into the woods, 30 minutes later I arrived by Karma and watched one of them casually pop up Karma, seemingly on their first pull on of the day. Not one to forget a fringe, I quickly realised it was Kokoro Fujii, but nevertheless, he made it look so trivial that I thought I actually might have a chance of getting up it too. 3 hours, and many attempts, later it became very apparent that I did not. Sandbag me once, shame on you. Towards the end of the day, I had just accepted defeat on Rencard and was about to move on, until Fujii and co. joined in and he quickly does it using higher feet. Rejoice, a new non reachy sequence for me to try. I excitedly got my shoes back out of my bag, squeaked them nice and clean, pulled on and realised it took all my might just to hold his starting positive, let alone consider moving from it. Sandbag me twice, shame on me.I've just remembered, there was also a pet goat on the loose at the crag that day. Every time I looked around, it would appear menacingly on top of a high boulder and was usually staring me down. - Miho Nonaka - Went to B-PUMP Ogikubo to sample some soft Japanese indoor climbing (they have a small perspex smoking box/room right beside the climbing area, so you could nip in mid session!). Travelling to the centre we actually joked about how cool it would be if someone like Miho was casually knocking about (I genuinely had no idea she even climbed at this particularly place) and lo and behold an hour into our session a bright red haired Miho arrives and starts warming up on everything I couldn't do. Honourable mentions: got my Dave Graham threepeat and I think my 4th sighting of a wild Dave Birkett. Good times.
Fell relaysFirst time at the fell relay champs. Did leg 1 (4.6k/460m), and performed much better than anticipated given the quality of the field, and my less than ideal year. Absolutely emptied myself, raced really hard for the duration, and felt it with the thigh DOMs for a few days after, but was over the moon to manage to do as well as I did. It's in Yorkshire next year so I'l be aiming to do it again, improve on that placing, and enjoy it - it's a fab event.
Quote from: edshakey on January 02, 2024, 05:37:47 pmFell relaysFirst time at the fell relay champs. Did leg 1 (4.6k/460m), and performed much better than anticipated given the quality of the field, and my less than ideal year. Absolutely emptied myself, raced really hard for the duration, and felt it with the thigh DOMs for a few days after, but was over the moon to manage to do as well as I did. It's in Yorkshire next year so I'l be aiming to do it again, improve on that placing, and enjoy it - it's a fab event.Nice write up generally, lovely and honest and good to hear from fellow punters (offence not intended). Hope things pick up.I just wanted to piggyback on the relays and add that to my list. I too have had a mixed year of running and definitely slowing down (sub-20 5k thoroughly out of reach). Call it post-covid, age, focusing on other stuff, plain lazyness, but I've come to realise I love a good race regardless of slim training. There's people to battle against at whatever point in the field and times don't matter too much offroad. I absolutely love the Relays (this was my prompt to finally join a club years ago, when they were local to me). I've managed to snag a place most years and very happy to do so again. I suspect because the pool of people willing to point a compass in the club is smaller still than those up for the race. We were pretty well matched pair and only 1 slightly duff line late on, that lots of others took. Hope to see you in Yorks next year!
Quote from: Fultonius on January 02, 2024, 02:59:37 pmQuote from: sherlock on January 02, 2024, 02:43:12 pmTiming my hits for when my MS isn't too bad Have you tried HBOT treatment? No magic bullet, but many find it helps with symptom management.I haven't tried that yet, need to talk with the consultant but it's been a year since my last appointment.I had a pal who used it after an accident nearly crippled him and his response was excellent.Thanks, I will chase it up.
Quote from: sherlock on January 02, 2024, 02:43:12 pmTiming my hits for when my MS isn't too bad Have you tried HBOT treatment? No magic bullet, but many find it helps with symptom management.
Timing my hits for when my MS isn't too bad
Did you do the True Finish to Shibboleth?It was 30+ years ago and still fresh in my mind...
Spartan Slab, VS, Beinn TrilleachanFirst day of a trip to Glencoe. Started as it was drying from the rain, quickly got drier and cleaner after the first half a pitch. Crux was bizarre, surely not 4c, but ended up circumventing it across the slab to the right - almost certainly technically harder but more my cup of tea.
Quote from: edshakey on January 02, 2024, 05:37:47 pmSpartan Slab, VS, Beinn TrilleachanFirst day of a trip to Glencoe. Started as it was drying from the rain, quickly got drier and cleaner after the first half a pitch. Crux was bizarre, surely not 4c, but ended up circumventing it across the slab to the right - almost certainly technically harder but more my cup of tea. What are you calling the crux? The crux is surely getting out of the recess and onto the rib? 5a in most guides, but well protected.
As for my variation, instead of leaving the belay and going left to the recess, I went right to where the hanging slab can be accessed more easily and then did a few blank steps padding left to the position after the crux. This was not well protected, but like I said originally, I like that kind of thing, and had exhausted seemingly all possibilities on the proper way to go!
Impressed you tried to get to the bottom of there.....Still probably the hardest trip in the Country.....