I would almost certainly be sitting on a train with a beer and a pack of pork pies weighting in at around 120kg.
genuine critical conversation about its possible risks and benefits
I may be misreading, but I read Molly's post as falling as much into the "possibly bad dieting/weight decisions" as the "ED" camp, though it's hard to tell, which is why I don't think its easy (or worth it?) to separate these things out. Only difference is that Molly's post is more on the anti-diet bandwagon that the "defensive" posts from people more on the "diet can be useful" that some people didn't likeOne concern I would have with the current anti-diet movement is that dieting becomes so frowned upon that genuine critical conversation about its possible risks and benefits is driven underground. E.g. I wouldn't dare raise the point in Molly's insta that her injury may or may not have had anything to do with weight (and I have pretty thick skin for internet arguments).. and I'm sure others wouldn't too, but will be thinking the same (i.e. discussion around this stuff is already not open, honest or critical. Pity bonjoy deleted his more argumentative post from a few days ago)
1) you forfeit the ability to claim in any way, shape or form that you want open and honest discussion, or even any form of discussion/conversation on the topic (people keep saying, on here and insta etc that it's great to have conversation around this - you can't say that unless you actually want conversation)
2) you run the risk of dieting being a secret that you keep hidden because others wouldn't approve
3) you fuck over anyone who is considering dieting and thinks critically because it becomes clear that the message is "don't do drugs because drugs are bad" with no real discussion about how bad, what we understand, how to manage it safely if you do want to "experiment", etc.
In contrast I find generalised complaints about tone depressing and alienating. At the risk of being shredded for my negative tone I think this sort of thing puts a lot of people off engaging in discussions like this. I'd prefer people could say what they think, and be rigorously challenged on the specifics when people disagree, rather than receiving a non-specific scolding for their 'tone'.
by 'conversation' what I think is meant is [...]
For me, 'thinking critically' is one of those loaded terms that has applies a negative connotation to those who prefer to simply not engage in the activity under discussion (because they don't have the time, don't feel qualified, or numerous other reasons), and a positive connotation to those that do. Basically my view on this is the same as for no.1; I am conflicted on whether an open, 'critical' discussion on dieting would produce better health outcomes for people than a blanket approach. Because I think a blanket approach would on balance help a greater number of people I am inclined to think this is the better option.
if I read something like Molly's post, I rapidly ask "how do we know the injuries were diet driven", but if I'm not allowed to ask this question I just form a dim view of those telling me that like a fact but not allowing me to ask the questions
Perhaps this says as much about me and my default scepticism as it does about anything else
Quote from: abarro81 on February 10, 2021, 10:13:02 am if I read something like Molly's post, I rapidly ask "how do we know the injuries were diet driven", but if I'm not allowed to ask this question I just form a dim view of those telling me that like a fact but not allowing me to ask the questionsI mean, my immediate response to this is that its none of our business to be honest! If Molly (not exactly uninformed on these issues I would presume!), who knows her body and has coaches/ contacts to discuss things with, suggests they were then I don't think a default questioning tone is particularly relevant or appropriate, especially on a public forum. I don't think anyone talking about how diet affected their climbing/health is obliged to do a peer reviewed study before talking about it.
As an example, when Mina had her accident on Rainshadow she ascribed the blame to a loose fitting harness.
I am not anti diet and I keep saying this - I just would rather we talked more about how we make a more open and supportative community that would allow people (particularly young people) to understand choices they make and get support if needed.
Quote from: Will Hunt on February 10, 2021, 10:39:22 amAs an example, when Mina had her accident on Rainshadow she ascribed the blame to a loose fitting harness. I thought this would probably come up as I clicked post, but I do think the context is different as correct harness fit is not a mental and physical health issue in the same way as dieting and EDs and so is fine for public discussion for me.
You missed the point by a country mile there