I'm 33 and I've been climbing a bit over a year, only indoors really (mostly the Castle). A couple months ago I started doing the odd V4 and giving a couple of 7a top rope routes a good shot, but it felt like I wasn't getting better past that, so I've started going a bit more regularly and getting more excercise in general.
The problem is I suffer from anxiety, and I'm proper terrified that I'm going to push myself too hard and do myself a finger injury, and have to take a break for a few weeks/months. Apart from accidentally punching the holds nothing has really hurt my fingers much more than a bit of mild soreness the next day, but everytime I get a pain in my fingers I wonder if that means its time for a rest. My girlfriend (whos been climbing way longer than me) says not to worry, and to 'listen to my body', but I don't trust my instincts and I fucking love climbing so I'd ignore it anyway.
So how painful does something have to be before it's a signal to stop climbing and go home or have a break for a few days? Is it any pain at all? Or does it have to make you go 'ow'? I realise this is a bit of a dumb/open question but any advice would be appreciated!